Thank you for your thoughts on the no child left behind example, but even with your suggested theory it still falls into not letting people fail in life. The discovery method you mention is where kids can fail, learn on their own, figure it out.
This banking system sounds like it does not allow them to fail, just fills them with info telling that’s the way it is. See what i mean?

On another note, I totally agree with your attitude on rejection.

I have heard many no’s both in my personal life and career. I never seem to let it break me. I create new ways to “get what I want”. I take from every rejection and build from it. I figure out what I did wrong and how I could make it better.

Personal rejection is totally different than business as well. I agree people should be more honest, but relationships are touchy and sometimes we don’t even know why we reject others. Sometimes we reject someone in a personal relationship just because we feel something isn’t right, like it’s in our gut…

Being a dancer and educator I am very familiar with rejection. Spending countless years online at cattle call auditions. Rejection has become apart of life for me.

I have heard many no’s both in my personal life and career. I never seem to let it break me. I create new ways to “get what I want”. I take from every rejection and build from it. I figure out what I did wrong and how I could make it better.

When dealing with rejection on a personal level it is very different. When you go on an audition or job interview you get a straight forward answer “you’re not the person for the job”, but when it comes to relationships people are not that straight forward. They don’t tell you “you are not the right person for this position” because they do not want to hurt your feelings. I think people need to be more honest when it comes to rejection on a personal level. It will help the person being rejected get a clear picture of what is and isn’t wanted from them.

Just some food for thought.